Episode 41: The Gift of Self Loathing
Synopsis
The only way to shorten a learning curve in personal evolution is to improve the communication within. Do you value your time? How fast do you want to complete the conversation? Stepping onto the same side of the table as our pain is the first step toward releasing a painful pattern.
The only way to shorten a learning curve in personal evolution is to improve the communication within. Do you value your time? How fast do you want to complete the conversation? Stepping onto the same side of the table as our pain is the first step toward releasing a painful pattern.
Show Notes
Have you ever heard that saying
The lesson will repeat until the lesson has been learned.
A couple of episodes ago I was talking about the value that painful experiences is offering us.
Another favorite quote by Bruce Lee: “The pain will leave once it has finished teaching you”
Have you ever experienced the same?
Have you ever experienced the GIFT of pain, when it has delivered its message to you?
This is why I say:
Even self hate has something to teach us.
Even self hate has something to teach us.
For this reason I hesitate to help someone remove it unless we know what it’s purpose was. Until its message has been received. Doing so would actually be impossible, you could have the perception of the pain leaving, but it would only be suppression.
Do you see how the only way to shorten the curve is to improve the communication?
Do you remember how to speak the language of your own unconscious?
Do you value your time? How fast do you want to complete the conversation?
Making pain wrong is another lie we tell to ourselves and in doing so forfeit our personal power.
It’s another way we harm ourselves on top of harm by attempting to remove any experience without respect for its own reason for being, its intent, its function…
Stepping onto the same side of the table as our pain is the first step toward releasing a painful pattern.